We’re Doing It Wrong

Ok I'm gonna do it again! I’m talking about dating. I saw a meme the other day that rang so true for me, I reposted it, saved it, and sent it to a few friends.  It read, “When I was young I wanted to be married by 23.  Lets all take a moment and laugh together.” and its so true!  When I was in high school I would have bet money on this but here I am.  In this jungle/limbo we call modern dating. A world I didn't plan for when I went bright eyed and bushy tailed out of my parents house at 18.  Twenty-six, I now find myself in a place more suited for a specific level of hell from Dante's Inferno, … [Read more...]

The Things We Forget

As women I think we forget just how powerful we are. We forget how strong we are and how much control we actually have. Now I'm far from a feminist but I think we as women give a little to much away in terms of our self worth and how we allow others, such as the media, men and even other woman to change our opinions of ourselves or make us doubt ourselves. We forget how beautiful we are with our curves and soft spots or with our toned lean muscles. We forget how sexy we are, with our hair and makeup done and how we can communicate with just a look from across a room. We're even sexy in ways … [Read more...]


At a little over a month of being 26 I find myself in a weird place, a place I didn't think I would be. Although it is not a bad place its still nothing I expected when I thought “When I'm 26 I’ll be…”. Where ever or whoever I thought I’d be, I'm not there and a completely different person. If you would have asked me 10 years ago at 16 what I would be doing at 26, I would have probably said, with great confidence, I will be an international business college grad, with a masters to follow. I would be way beyond an engagement and would have been married by now for almost a year to a wonderful … [Read more...]